Reasons or excuses
Many of us want our lives to be different; we seek change in our feelings, our behaviour, our life experiences, the results we are getting.
We don’t know where to start, or how.
We say “I am not sure, I don’t know if I am ready”.
We fear what will happen if we make a change.
We see the way we are entwined with others; we tell ourselves we don’t make the change because someone else will be affected or won’t like it.
We hesitate. We resist. We make excuses.
We find other values to serve – ignoring what is, upon reflection, a higher priority. We say “I have to work” (because work is a society-sanctioned escape route “work is good”).
What are your excuses for not living the life you want?
What do you want when you are not making excuses or squashing your dreams?
Sarah xx